Lawrence Delawder, Jr.





The following is taken from the book "De Lauter Families in America 1982",
a Genealogy by: Pauline Grace De Lauter Fry.

(From Pages 313-IV) Lawrence Delawder, Jr.:


In searching for my Ancestors, I found four early Delawder settlers in Lawrence Co., Ohio. Lawrence, Isaac, Marion, and Catharine were found to be brothers and sister. Lawrence and Isaac were found to be my great grandfathers. The three boys settled in Lawrence Co., Ohio and Catharine who married Abraham Roberts came to Ohio about 1806 from Virginia.


In searching records, I found more about my great grandfather Lawrence than of Isaac. Lawrence was born about 1782 or 1784 in the Shenandoah Valley of Virginia. His brothers Isaac and Marion built the first Grist Mill in 1812 in Aid Township. It was a one story building and the mill was run by horse power. Lawrence came to Lawrence Co., Ohio at an early age and settled in Aid Twp.


Lawrence left Aid Township and moved to Scioto Co., Ohio. In 1818 he was elected Constable of Vernon Township, Scioto Co., Ohio. From a book by James Keys, the author of "Pioneers of Scioto Co.", printed in 1880, has this to say about Lawrence Delawder who he was very fond of. He was a very ignorant man so far as looks were concerned and perhaps could not read or write but, nature had been liberal in her gifts and he was known throughout the county for his shrewdness and comical expressions. In an election year some people who had contempt for General Lucas who was running for the State Assembly coaxed Lawrence to run against Lucas. It was a bitter campaign and Lucas won. When Lawrence was asked why he lost, his comment was, "Well, my chances was purty good until that (Tam) great God Almighty Gen. Lucas came along riding his (Tam) big grey horse, which like as not wasn't paid for, and all them (Tam) fools voted for him."


For a time Lawrence and Isaac were bitter enemies because of the marriage of their children--my grandfather James Madison who was the son of Lawrence and my grandmother Barbara who was the daughter of Isaac. From a source of information from Joe Rucker who was nearing 90 years of age when I chatted with him my grandfather and grandmother were married on a bridge over Aarons Creek because of the grudge each parent had against the other. Once during sugar making time Lawrence and his wife were on their way to visit neighbors and while passing his brother Isaac's sugar camp and seeing no one around, he told his wife walk slowly while he stopped awhile and pected the mother in Ikes Vinegar.


From Vernon Twp, Scioto co., Lawrence moved to Decatur Twp., Lawrence County in 1820 and at that time Census records showed he had three sons under 16 years of age and four daughters at home. Then the census record of 1830 and 1840 gives his residence as Aid Twp. There were land contracts by Lawrence Delawder for the following years: 1838, 1841, 1845, 1851 and 1863.


A legend about Lawrence Delawder was that he stuffed his money in the barrel of his shotgun and walked to Chillicothe, Ohio, then our State Capitol, and paid for land known now as Clinton Furnace. His mistake before leaving on his land buying spree was not to stake his claim and upon his return found a furnace being erected on his land. From his loss came Clinton Furnace in 1832 erected by Thomas G. Gaylord.


In searching records of Virginia, we found a Lawrence Delawder in the 1790 census. We believe that he could have been the father of Lawrence, Isaac, Marion and Catharine. Lawrence was living alone in 1860 in Aid Twp. His house stood between Andrew Brown and Geo Dalton.


We were able to locate the name Delawder in Maryland, Kentucky, Virginia and West Virginia. Jacob Delawder coming from Frederick Co., MD to Montgomery Co., Ohio in 1820 and died July 7, 1877 at the age of 83. Geo Delawder from Middletown, MD born in June 24, 1849 a son of Geo and Mahala Boyer Delawder. He was a carpenter and mason. They settled in Marion Co., Ohio from Hardy County and Grand County Virginia and West Virginia found these Delawder names:

Abraham Delawder m. Christinia Crummet 6/18/1835
Christina Delawder to Mich Crummet 3/4/1834
Jacob Delawder to Barbara Feather 7/29/1821
Magdolena Delawder to John Whetzel 8/13/1835
Mary Delawder to Adam Mongold 2/7/1812
Mary B. Delawder to Elias Fink 3/4/1814
These people could have been relatives of Lawrence Delawder since he was born in the Shenandoah Valley in Virginia.


Godfrey, a son of Lawrence II, accidentally shot one of his children while shooting a chicken for dinner one day. My father had many stories to tell about Godfrey. My father said he was a funny man in his ways. He would take his corn to the mill to be ground, but, my father said, he would place the sack of corn on his shoulder before he mounted his horse, and carry it that way to the mill. He was an honest man, my father said, for you could give him a letter to deliver to anyone, and he would carry it for days before he located the right person who it was for. I am sure there are many more stories that I have not been able to learn about but, perhaps before this family tree is completed I will learn many more.


On May 30, 1963 four generations of the Delawder Family went on a trip collecting data for the family tree. They were myself, Vada Essman, Frank Shope and his son Bill. We visited old cemeteries and secured birth and death dates from the old grave markers.
-- Written by Edith Walls as told to her by her mother, Rachel Yeley." (13th child of James Burton Delawder).



Lawrence Delawder, Jr. married Esther Halterman
Children of Lawrence Delawder, Jr. and Esther Halterman:
Godfrey Delawder born 29 July 1809, died Lawrence Co., OH 11 April 1870 marriage (1) Pike Co., OH 26 Sept 1838 to Minerva nance, marriage (2) 1 Aug 1842 to Elizabeth Burke (b 24 April 1820, d 14 Feb 1883)

James Madison Delawder born 18 Aug 1811, died 24 Oct 1871, married 2 March 1834 to 1st cousin Barbara Delawder (b 18 Jan 1814, died July 1884)

John Delawder born 1814, died 22 April 1879 65 yr m Nancy Davison "Davidson" (b circa 1818, d 18 Jan 1899

David Delawder

Mary Delawder



The following information was received from Don Delawder living in Sugar Land, Texas


LAWRENCE DELAWDER JR.

CHILDREN OF LAWRENCE JR.& ESTER HALTERMAN

NOTE:
Ester Halterman was daughter of Jacob Halterman
Lawrence Jr. and Ester married and settled at French Grant.
They then entered a half section where Clinton Furnance stands.
There they had so much sickness they sold out and moved to Aarons Creek (S.16 T4 R17)
This was around 1823.

CHILDREN:
------- Delawder
John Delawder Born 1816 Ohio
Nancy Delawder
Godfrey Delawder Born July 29, 1809 Died April 1 1870
James Madison Delawder Born 1812 Ohio
Mary Delawder
David Delawder


---------- Delawder
Married Jason Rose son of John Rose
NOTE: Name of this daughter is not known--need to research Rose history.


John Delawder Married: Nancy Davis Born 1817 in VA daughter of George W. Davis
Children:
James Madison Delawder B. 1840 Company B 173rd OVI Pro Corp. Entered 8/13/1864, Discharged at Camp Dennison 7/5/1865
Caroline Delawder B. 1844 Ohio
Mary Ann Delawder B.1842 Ohio
Henry Randolph B.1847 Ohio
Barbara Delawder B.1849 Ohio
John Delawder B.1851
Elizabeth Delawder B. 1850 Ohio
Lawrence Delawder B.1853 Ohio
Joseph Delawder B.1854 Ohio
Nancy Delawder B. 1856 Ohio
Robert Delawder B.1859 Ohio

Nancy Delawder married: Beryl Stephens
NOTE: After their marriage, Nancy and Beryl moved to White River ARK. where they were killed by Indians

Godfrey Delawder B.July 29,1809 Died April 1,1870
Married: Minerva Nance--she died and then he Married Elizabeth Burke born April 20, 1820 and died Feb. 4, 1889 daughter of Wm. Burke
Children:
Jane Delawder B.1844 Ohio
Mary Delawder B.1847 Ohio

James Madison Delawder B.1812 Ohio married Barbara Delawder B.1814 Ohio the daughter of Issac Delawder
Children:
Margaret Delawder B.1834 Ohio
Eliza Delawder B.April 1837 Ohio
Nancy Delawder
John Madison Delawder B. 1841 Ohio
Jennetta Delawder B.1843 Ohio
Alfred Delawder B.1849 Ohio
Archibald Delawder B.Feb.1851 Ohio
James Burcham Delawder B. May 1853

David Delawder married: Mary McCarthy daughter of John McCarthy
Children:
NOTE: No information on David and Mary

Mary Delawder married: Marqus Chainy
Children:
Thomas Chainy
NOTE: Only have info of one son. He later married Martha Reed.




The following email was received on April 3, 2000 from Sandy Holderby descendant of Margaret Delawder d/o Archibald Delawder.

 

 

Glen,

 

        …  Hope you enjoy these stories........I thought they were quite amusing.

Sandy

 

        There are several different stories told about Lawrence, Jr.  As you can

see from the one below, he was quite a character:

 

        In the fall of l814, General John Lucas was elected to the Senate of the

State of Ohio.  Here he remained, I believe, without failing to be

reelected, until l828, a period of fourteen years, so that in politics,

he seemed to succeed much better than he did in the military line.  I

cannot at this time call to mind the different candidates that ran

against him at the different elections that took place every two years.

But one candidate I remember well.  I cannot call to mind the exact year,

but it was somewhere between l820 and l824, that the opponents of Lucas,

knowing they could not bring out a man who was able to beat him, and, in

order to show their contempt for him, (he had his enemies as well as

friends) brought out a Pennsylvania Dutchman, who lived in Vernon

township, by the name of Lawrence Delawder.  He was a very ignorant man

so far as books were concerned, and perhaps could not read or write at

all, but nature had been liberal in her gifts, and he was known

throughout the country for his shrewdness and comical expressions.  The

enemies of Lucas got around Delawder, and by flattering him a little,

they got him to come out and run against Lucas for the Senate.

Candidates for office in those days were not brought out as they are at

present by primary meetings, caucuses and conventions, but every man who

chose to do so, ran for office on his own account.  Therefore, they made

Lawrence Delawder believe that he would be elected if he would come out

and run for the Senate against Lucas.  It was a funny canvass, and Lucas

was somewhat mortified at the kind of opposition that was brought to bear

against him.  However, he was elected as usual, but his enemies were so

embittered against him, that in order to show their spite, Delawder got a

good many votes.  After the election was over, someone asked Lawrence,

how it came that he was not elected?  "Well," says Lawrence, "my chance

was purty good until that tam great God Almighty General Lucas came along

riding, his tam big grey horse, which as like as not was not paid for,

and all the tam fools voted for him."

 

     Lawrence Delawder was a pioneer of Scioto county, and as such, it

becomes necessary to say something about him.  If we could use the same

kind of English that Sterne did, when he wrote Tristram Shandy, we could

convey a much better idea of the state of society and the morals of the

country as they existed at that day, than we can with our improved morals

and refined manner of speaking.  Therefore we have to pass over a great

many incidents and witty sayings which would be very interesting reading,

but good taste forbids, so we have to do the best we can under the

circumstances.

 

     Raccoon hunting was practiced a good deal in the early settlement of

the country; their flesh was good to eat, and their skins would sell for

cash, which the pioneers needed.  The usual practice in hunting "coons",

was to go into the woods at night with dogs and an axe; when the dogs

treed a 'coon', they would bark up the tree in such a manner as to leave

no doubt which tree the coon was on.  They then fell to work and cut the

tree down.  The dogs generally secured the coon before it could reach

another tree.  Lawrence went out one night to hunt coons, and ina short

time the dogs treed one on rather a large tree.  After surveying the tree

for some time, he concluded that it would be easier to climb the tree and

shake the coon off, than to cut the tree down.  He started out on the

limb to shake the coon off, but before he got near enough to do so, the

limb broke, altogether.  The dogs pitched in as it was their duty to do,

and instead of one coon they thought they had two, they bit and worried

poor Lawrence sometime, before he could get his  dogs to understand that

he was not a coon, and that he had some rights that dogs were bound to

respect.  Afterwards, in repeating this story to his friends, he would

say he "thought it was most tam hard times when the dogs was shaking and

worrying of him."

 

     On another occasion Delawder was at a log rolling or house raising,

or some gathering of that sort, where he got into a fight.  His

antagonist got him down with his face to the ground, and was on his back

pounding him with his fist, but not hurting him much.  Lawrence's friends

called out to him to know if he was whipped and if so to cry out enough,

and they would take the fellow off.  "Never mind," says Lawrence, "wait

till I get my breath a little and I'll give it to him."  So after

Lawrence had rested sufficiently, he gave a spring, and turned the man

under, and gave him a severe beating, and made him cry enough in short

order.  This feat raised Lawrence to the pinnacle of fame; he was a great

hero, and he had learned them some new tactics in fighting.

 

     It was customary in the early settlement of the country, for every

family to make their own sugar.  If the trees did not grow near the

house, so they could make it at home, they selected a grove of sugar

trees, where ever they could find them in sufficient numbers to justify

making a camp.  They generally erected a rude camp of logs, or puncheons,

to protect them from wind and rain, and during the sugar making season

would live in the camp until the sugar making season was over.  The first

run of sap in the spring, always made the best sugar, equal to Muscavado

or New Orleans sugar; as the season advanced, the sugar became waxy and

dark colored, and still later, it would only make molasses.  The very

last work of sugar making, was to make a barrel of vinegar.  Now we come

to what I want to tell.  Lawrence Delawder had a brother living in the

same neighborhood, named Isaac; they were not on friendly terms; in fact,

they were bitter enemies, and took every opportunity to do each other

private injury.  Lawrence and his wife had been visiting a neighbor one

Sunday, in the latter part of sugar making, and as they went home in the

afternoon, they passed through Isaac's sugar camp, seeing no person

about, Lawrence says to his wife, "you walk on slowly while I stop a few

minutes, and put the mother in Isaac's vinegar."






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